Please help i need advice!?

my husband and i have been together since i was 15. i am twenty now and we just moved to italy because he is in the military. i had to leave my family behind which was hard for me cause we are very close. i got a job here but i havent started yet, so i stay home all day. my husband is really mean to me because he makes all the money and i havent started working yet. everyday when he comes home from work he "inspects" the house to make sure i cleaned it good enough, and everyday he finds something wrong. he yells at me and tells me im a lazy slob and i would be no where with out a man to support me. he always puts me down. this is the fist time i havent worked since i was 16. i dont know what to do im so depressed! i just moved to another country with him and all he does is controll me! what should i do? he treats me like im worhtless! i want to leave but i cant its too expensive and im scared its not the right thing to do. please give me some advice